Stop acting please be real #2 Honesty

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Honesty is not a choice for me. Because it is there in my blood. It is there in my mind. I understood onething Being Honest and Acting Honest is different. Because like in my previous post 
Stop acting please be real #1 same i am repeating, acting acting the persons will get tired. "For them i changed" and "i changed, because what i am previously is wrong" these two are two different things. For the first case they needed to prove to someone that i changed for you thats it, but that change they are hating, they need what they are really, otherwise honest will not becomes choice for them. "If you are questioning me i will not be honest", "being honest and even then you are questioning me??" then my question is being honest is for whome ??? Trying or acting for someone or trying or being for yourself ?? The second on is the real change. They are not changed for someone, they change because they need that change. They are not worring about questions because they are really changed and can answer any question. They will not fear because they are not doing anything wrong they know it. 

May be these people faced only acting honest ones or they are habituated for it thats why. "If you also want to be dishonest you can, i dont care" what this dialogue means ??? But it is not that easy for everyone to be dishonest. I read somewhere that if we fight there should be some reason to comeback and compremise. Love, Commitment, Responsibility or something should be there. If nothing is there what is the need for it ?. "I can show my Ego to the maximum", I understood, if that ego is more than these then definitely there is no reason to comeback.  
 
 One lie is enough to spoil a thousand truths, right? Its so tough to live in this Earth, Because so many can lie on your face, cahtting, dating, calling and not leaving any evidence to trace is also wrong right?? I am not keeping any evidence means wrong will becomes right or not?? Like how one person can be honest in two different ways, same like one can be sorry for what they did and can be sorry for what you found. First case they are sorry about their behaviour and is sorry about what they did. They will admit their mistakes. Second one will also admit their mistake, the mistakes that the other one found, not more and they feel sorry only because you found it thats why. according to they all around them are wrong, "Everyone is doing same mistake and they are happy in life, then i will also ".  
 
Everything is not a choice?? Some are Needs. I am being honesty with you, if i am not lieing to you then i will expect the same from you. And i need it. It's not my request, its my right to get what i am giving.

The good actors around me are deserving some award for their acting. I know they are not doing anything bad. But my question is then WHY??? 
What is the purpose of creating these silly misunderstandings. What is the need for that single lie?? That lie is not hurting anyone, I know. But Why then ?????

 

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