The Marriage Knot

In India there is a traditional dialogue explaining Marriage that "It is that thread joins bride and groom together". 

After marriage I got the definition for the same. As like what everyone is saying it is correct and it is all about that thread.

The bride and the groom get connected by this thread. But this connection should not be a burden for both. That thread should not be the freedom restrictions for both.

And according to me, if I am telling i think if that thread/chain is taken/considered by both with same respect and commitment then it will not be a burden for anyone of them. That thread is not given to a single person, it should be carried by both. It's one end is given to bride and the other end to groom. If they both are having enough talent and love towards both means no need for the third person to take care of it. The God only should be the centre point for them.

When one person get tired of carrying that thread by their hands means how about the other. If one person is not taking care of it nicely means the other person with the other end wants to give that much effort to make it straight and perfect. And it is not an easy task as well.

Each person at each end can change their hands and they can handle without getting tired. If it comes to a single person to handle means that thread can't be taken to a long time handing with a person's two hands. He/she becomes tired.

Happy married life is not that tough. But that adjustments and understandings should be there. Open communications should be there. Getting irritated or tired/disturbed by one is common but solving and making up is important.

Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken."

Ecclesiastes 4:12