Home the Heaven❤️
House 🏠 consists of a building having some inhabitants who are connected directly or indirectly where a Home 🏡 consists of a Family and it is not just a house it's "Heaven".
Bringing heaven on earth 🌎 will be little tough, because we know entering into the heaven is not that easy. But I think one can create heaven on earth if there is an adjusting mentality, a loving nature, a caring nature, a honesty, trustworthy habits are there means.
A house can be constructed but not the home. Family- where we can see the most purified relationships. Husband - God - Wife the pillars of the house. In Ecclesiastes 4:12 says ' A cord of three strands is not easily broken '. Trusting each and being trustworthy towards each these three pillars stands strong to hold anything. Adding ingredients like Love 💕, Care 😘, Honesty, Willingness to keep going in any conditions, and so more these three pillars becomes stronger and stronger 💪 each day.
The parents and children are the inhabitants in that house. Parents - you are born from them they makes you a good person by giving the good values, culture, and advices to you. They did their best and we need to value it. Children - they are born from us, the most dependent ones. No one can replace the caring and love of their parents. In this period other than food, cloths, water and a roof of safety they need that Love 💕 and Care 😘. It's the responsibility of these three pillars to make another pillars which are more powerful than them. For that they want to get the right ingredients at the right time. Parents need to create a good atmosphere for making the other pillars. Need to take care while making it, carefully handle them so that they will never became soo dependents as well not tooo much independent.
The next generation should not be too much independent because the available resources are more likely to make them clueless. They can't handle the world with a bad programming, they need to be dependent to God anyway. And should get quality education on freedom, human values, independence, how to respect the other, how to behave and how to love, care and be honest.
If we are noticing a small child we will get they are just imitating what they are seeing. If the parents are shouting each don't expect something else from your child. Because they are what you are!! If they are seeing that love, care and affection between their parents, if they are seeing how to treat parents or grandparents properly they will also do the same.
If that Husband Wife is sharing each each things that happened in their life for that day the children will also get a picture of sharing. They also have a lot to discuss about their classroom stories. If parents are giving an open space for the children to discuss anything with them, they will clear their doubts from parents only, they will never seek someone else to listen to them.
Cooking works they will get to know, at least they may know before eating some works should be done, after eating as well. Eating together will boost everyones energy more than that food can provide. Keep aside your phones and listen to their bullshit stories without losing that interest. Most probably those stories will be about some animals or those cartoon characters.
Find time for entertainment, watch TV together here also you may need to watch those stupid cartoons. Complete house hold works fast so that everyone will get a quality time together. If possible go for a walk all together, go to park for a little time, play with them. Make them understand how to be when grown up like us.
Teach them empathy teach them how to smile, and talk to a person. Teach them to be positive in all situations. Teach them how to treat others, how to respect and value others. Make them understand that not the money that brings happiness, nor the phone and channel programs. But teach them the value of money, how to manage finance, how to make others smile 😀.
Last but not least, the importance of family prayer - this will make the children understand there is a force which is controlling everything. We are tiny matters compared to that. We are nothing Infront of it. This makes them to be humble and good. Because there should be a fear of God who can see everything from everywhere even with ot without lights. This will make them fear of doing evil matters, so that the children as well the parents will becomes humble towards each.
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