Equality in Marriage??

Is Equality the major thing in a relationship?? 

Nooo. It is not possible for a Man and a Woman to be equal all times or be 50% & 50% at all times. Sometimes it will be like 70% & 30% , sometimes it may be 40% & 60% 🤷. That's why God blessed the family with Women and Men instead of Men & Men or Women & Women. 

Incase of strength 💪 they're not equal ( generally men is more stronger than his wife ), incase of mental health they are not equal, incase of physical health they are not equal ( visually also no Husband Wife weights exactly same, same incase of height as well ), anxiety is not same for both ( situatios for which both get anxious is also will be deferent ), happiness is not same for both ( she will be happy for little little things that he can feel like silly silly matters ), eating capacity is not same ( Man will eat more compared with a Woman and should be as well. Because after that supermarket purchase women will take comparetively smaller bags 😆) , stress levels of both are different, what he faced today is entirely different from what she faced in office today, incase of wage 💰 they are not equal. It will be like that or should be like that because if you both are equal then what a person can adds in some others life. What he can do exactly if she can do, then what is the purpose of being together. Being together should complete 💯. If she is 30% then he can be her 70%, if he is 40% then she can be his 60% that is what a perfect relation. No one is born as perfect as 100%. 

If he is in introvert she will be extrovert, if he talks less she will be non stop, if he is shy she will be just opposite, if he can't express his feelings exactly the same to other person means she will be a explainer as well an expression queen 👑, if is he is soft she will be angry bird, if he is social she may be not. And this is how each family consists of, or otherwise in this way he ( God ) bonds two together. This is how one being attracted to other. That's why in chemistry ⚗️ acid neutralise a base and vise versa. That's why in Physics 🧲 south attracts north and positive ions get attracted to negative ions. 

In a relationship this is not all the factors that should be equal. Equality means equality in the levels of Love 💕, Honesty 💖, Care ❤️, Commitment 😍, Respect 😊, Communication 🗣️, Trustworthiness 🫶, and so on...

And being together doesn't mean being equal, being together means just be together all time for everything. Face all ups and downs together. Be together for completing the missing parts. 

Maintain the equilibrium or the balance of marriage equal by more and more efforts. Keeping efforts where you like is easy but useless, keeping efforts where the other one like is little tough but worthy. Being yourself is hard if you are not allowing the other person to be himself or herself. It's not compulsory to follow what others are happy at, do what makes you both happy. Make efforts in a meaningful way, it's not about I did this much, it's about in that one how many did for the other ( which one really wanted by the other ). I like to do this one that's why I did this much ( a far more than enough ) is different from I hate this one but I did this ( at least a little effort ) just for my love. I did it because I like it and it is easy is for yourself not for the other, it's just a selfish matter. I hate it but I did or changed myself is selflessness❤️, and that is what " Efforts " that is how that I love you becomes meaningful. Efforts is not just a word for one in a relationship, it's actually not efforts it's " Mutual Efforts " that binds them together.