Winning the Conversation

It's not that simple for everyone to win conversations all the time. Arguing with fault arguments are like telling directly that I can't agree with my faults/opinions which I made earlier, all I can do is make you feel like you failed and i won the conversation.

But for someone winning conversations is not a matter, for them making the other person know about the actual facts or making the other person understand the reality is more important. 

If one person is making some corrections or showing the other person what exactly they felt when you are doing something wrong, means that person needs to correct you. Because that person is valuing or loving you. While we are making any mistakes our parents only will correct because they want us. They want to make us into a good person with good qualities. But that time the other person is replying back with some unwanted dialogues or replying with some stupid things then it means that person is literally telling the other one that I can't agree with my mistake, even though you found it. I want to trust i am correct even though I am not. 

According to the other person it is far better if that person is saying " just stop i won't agree with my mistakes/ faults anyway, you can just tell that I won the conversation that's it" than making hate. 
Hearing those stupid replies everyone can't accept it, it will simply create some hate towards the other that's it.

Blessed is that "pencil" my first blog, which I wrote in 2018. Now I am remembering that pencil on this 2023.
 In that blog I wrote, being pencil is good. It can only take care of the rubber so nicely. Pencil carries the rubber with more love and care, even the rubber is correcting it's own mistakes at each time.



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