Open communications

Open communications is must in a marriage life. A single person can't make it happen. Because communication means atleast there should be two. 

Open talks needed not meant that one person wants to talk with some non living things or to a wall. It should be between two persons. If husband and wife is not having anything to discuss means what??

If one person is talking and other is busy in phone means the person is no more interested in listening to you that's it. Everyone will spend or like to spend their most time with what they love. If their love is phone means then what is the need for that complaint, that the other person is not listening to me. Understand that phone is more important than you.

Before the invention of smartphones i think, all relationships will be little more better. They are not having that habit of browsing, stalking, comparing instalifes (they will not get to know what others are doing, how they are living). 

Social media the most fake world showing ones face with that mask. The person under that mask is the only one who knows pain behind that smile and sad behind that happy. No one else.

Praying together, talking together, eating together, cooking together all is possible even after work. Because all these things has done by our parents when we are with them. But later when you get married different culture, different mentality, different pattern of life, all changed. Accept and move that's it possible.

Either two should talk and listen or otherwise one should talk and the other wants to listen. Neither be like no one is talking and listening. Once if you felt something inside your mind, open up your mouth. If you get something to doubt then open your mouth and ask, make it clear and then only move. If you didn't like anything about the other then please let the other one know about it. Don't be like the saint who suffered more. In married life single person won't suffer, single person can't be happy. If happy, both will be happy, if sad, both will be sad that's it.