Interstate Marriage

The things i noticed after getting Interstate Marriage.

1. First and foremost the difficulty for both to adjust with food habits.

 Food is not just a food, it's something more than that. Upto when we moved out of our state we will not realise the same.  When it demands you to adjust with different rice, different cooking style, different food items for a long time, you will realise that, food is not just food.

              

 It is more than that, it plays a role for our happy mood, it's play's a major role in hormone control, for our health, for our hair, everything depends on it. 

Accepting and moving with that food change is little tough.  I am not saying the way they are cooking is bad, it is good. But I habituated for another taste, and i love it. 

Both foods will not tastes same. Even in our same state, when we are entering one hostel we will think I can adjust with this taste as well. Because the only change is in taste, our tongue will not bother that one first, but within one week our tongue will get bored with that food and will ask for that habituated taste, right?? Then what about taste and the item as well changed means??😭😭😭

2. Difference in thinking levels

 

This one is not about interstate, it will vary for person to person even in same district🥺.

3. Difference in believes, celebrations and prayers and styles they follow.

Even if we are getting married with same caste doesn't mean both are having same believes, i get to know well about this one after my marriage. The difference in prayers, the difference in styles of celebrating the same as well 😲. 

4. The other major thing is that maintenance of proper language. 

Too tough, we can't use that code language in front of others, because first we want to explain to our partner  what does it mean actually. We want to use a proper language with proper slang, otherwise the normal words as well create a bad image🫣.

5. Will feel bad when we are using that super comedy scenes from those famous movies.

What you will feel when you acted, or cracked a super famous comedy scene from your own language and the listener just listened that one like a serious matter🙄🙄🙄.

Don't know, may be all this will get habituated in that long run ☺️☺️.

I think, Arranged marriage means Agreed to accept the change.