For a better Marriage Life


When we fall in love with someone, later that someone becomes our world. No one else can make that happy, no one else can make that sad or whatever feeling will depend on that special person/someone.

Changing that single life to a mingle life is really hard, first we will enjoy the moments, then it will moves to realisation and then to acception. 

Once it get accepted i think then, it will fall on one nice track where we can handle that vehicle nicely. Both will understand each by that time.

Adujusting is the main factor of a good life, but this good life should be colourful for both means then this adjustments should turns to understanding. 

If one is feeling i am adjusting more is literally bullshit. In married life single person can't be happy. If you are happy the other one also. If you are not the other also, but to show that ego  - the other person can act like it doesn't bother me, i am happier anyway. But actually by act only, not by the inner heart they can be happy. 

Love, care, understading, adjustments, that patience, hope, trust, commitmet, lesser ego, and more and more ingredients are there for a better married life.

And all the above mentioned ingredients are interrelated, if one is there other one also will be available, if one is missing, that cooked dish will not be a perfect one.

Open talks, clearing doubts by the same moment, and being themselves, acting less, helping mentality, lesser arguments, respecting each, sharing mentality, the mentality to adjust or accepting the change, no comparison, and somemore somemore needed for the same.

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