Sony and Bella casual talk #1 - Are you happier before or after marriage??

Sony: Bella are you happy after or before marriage?

Bella: Definitely i am happier after marriage🥰. But you know, I am the happiest before marriage 🙂 as well.

Sony: Everyone one will be!!! Rarely someone is there with other opinion.

Bella: 🙂.

Sony: Which one you are missing most Love or Care ?? 

Bella: Honesty 😔.  Love and Care is there more than I deserves. Lucky in that sense I am!! 🥰. What about you??

Sony: Don't know, everything is there but not completely there. Sometimes feels like sooo blessed sometimes like just quit.

Bella: I don't know little little fights, till now no one shouted at me for any reason, no one becomes angry with me anytime (not even my higher officers, in office it may be chances but the fact is that, alone i didn't get scolded by anyone). There is no misunderstanding between anyone about finance matter, very little fights with best friends (even it will get solved before going bed). May be whomever passed in my life till now don't consider me like anything or they may be that much good. I don't know the reason for my sadness. 

Sony: Don't worry it will all get habituate gradually 😂. You don't know cooking that much right??

Bella: Correct. But my cooking is not bad like can't eat, it's ok but not that tasty that's it😔. 

Sony: Ha, you will learn by time. Actually, last time when we taste your curry we didn't felt bad. May be our taste and the cooking style will be different from them that's why. Two states means this is the problem.

Bella: Listening to  " you are cooking for more than 3 months and you didn't corrected anything till now" is the most worst thing 😭. After 10 years or 20 years of cooking also sometimes we may add salt more or water more in curries right??

Sony: I am making mistakes now also, but they all will eat, will not tell anything 😄.

Bella: Maybe he knows cooking that's why. Actually his curries are good but not upto my Mom's. But I didn't said anytime that one. Because I know he can't accept that. One day, I said his egg curry is not good. After that he didn't ever tried it. 

Sony: Ok. Let it be, he  loves you right?

Bella: Sure 😀. When I asked, he said he is more happy after marriage. May be he  thought if I get hurt ?? Don't know 🤷, but I can understand, because I who thinks like same or nearly same feeling will be there for everone. 

Sony: Up and downs will be there in every marriage want to cope up and adjust 👩‍❤️‍👨. That's life.

Bella: Correct. He is also trying his best. I will also try my best to understand his anger, character and everything. But sometimes I am afraid of getting slap. Do you know till now I didn't even get one with broom stick from my parents or anyone. Correcting me or even shouting at me I can accept but not more than that.

Sony: Bella, don't worry like that. No one will do such things nowadays. It's not the time of our parents, no one is grown up like that now. Even girls are little more bold than those days, all are educated as well. Nothing will happen, don't worry. Even in any case like wise happened means don't give a second chance. This one once done means again again will go the same. Don't wait for sorry or don't wait for understanding the situation. Just move on.

Bella: Will not happen. But sometimes I don't know I will be afraid. May be I am a person who overthinks a lot, that's why I thought like this. Leave it.

Sony: All marriages are almost same, negatives are there for everyone. Adjust.

Bella: Ha. But adjustmensts should be from both sides right? I changed that 25 years habituated rice here. The taste which both are habituated are totally different. He wants to eat dinner and  breakfast with snacks items. I don't even want to eat snacks for breakfast as well. Food is little concerned factor hhaii😔.

Sony: Go man, cooking snacks items for breakfast and dinner ( if possible same means it's far far better ). Workload will be less. Otherwise rice if you are cooking means different Currie's also you want to cook. If you are adjusting little for this means your cooking works will get easy. Here you follow that pattern only, because same I felt when I get married but later I understood this one only good after children. 

Bella: 😀