Individuality

In married life I think, understanding each is very important. And understanding should be by themselves, don't try to understand one person through anyone else ( even don't try to understand each through friends, parents or siblings) because each person's perspectives are different. 

Don't think that all woman same, some girls like pink doesn't mean all like pink, some girls like makeup and some not, some like gifts and some likes deep meaningful talks, some like shopping and  some like long walk, some like movies where some like adventures, some like cooking where some like eating, some like parks means some like historical places, some like malls where some like trekking, some likes that boquet means some like living plants, some like party wear and some likes normal casual wear, even some likes coffee where some girls like tea. And somemore somemore. 

Treating a girl, giving her respect, love and care like your mother and sister is good, it is tooo goood. But all three are not same, all of their wishes, their dreams, their choices everything will be different.

Don't try to understand one through the other, everyone is each each individual with different individuality. And it will be little tough to understand each individual if proper open talks or proper communications are not there.